The Best "To-Do" List
- Magen Thetford
- Jan 25, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 16, 2023
āBut the Lord answered her, āMartha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but only one thing is necessary.āā
Luke 10:41 NASB
Itās the start of a new year, and that usually translates into fresh beginnings with ramped up energy to achieve all of the goals.
The only problem is that I somehow already feel behind and worn out.
My to-do list seems daunting, and my energy to accomplish these things already feels depleted and limited. Hereās the tricky part, Iām not even trying to conquer the world with my lists. Iām simply trying to be a good wife, to help disciple three tiny human hearts, to keep groceries in the fridge and meals on the table, and to try to maintain a mostly clean house (after scrubbing the floors from yet another spot that our new puppy made on our floor). Normal tasks.
Check it off, knock it out, get it done. Sprinkle a bit of love here and there if I remember. Rinse and repeat.
Unfortunately, Iām learning that this pattern keeps my mind focused on me. Iām practically wearing blinders to most everything else going on around me. Can you relate?
In his book āThe Elimination of Hurry,ā John Mark Comer says, āBoth sin and busyness have the exact same effect - they cut off your connection to God, to other people, and even to your own soul.ā What if we were missing the full lives God intended for us because we are so preoccupied with what we need to do? More importantly, what if we are missing out on Godās presence and power in the middle of it all?
Iām so thankful for the interaction between Jesus and Martha in Luke 10. She reminds me so much of myselfā¦hurried and busy, trying to get it all done, annoyed at the people who arenāt in it with me. When Jesus speaks to her, it is such a kind and patient reminder of loving truth. He isnāt saying what she is doing isnāt important. Itās just not the most important.
Letās make sure our priority is spending time in His presence, asking Him to show us what is needed before we just start cranking out our daily to-dos. He is our only necessary.
Your fellow Able Mom,
Magen Thetford
Lord, we admit that we are prone to busyness and anxiousness over the tasks that come with every day. We ask that You grow our desire to sit quietly at your feet and learn from Your ways. We need You to help us prioritize what is most important each day. Thank You for Your patience and faithful love towards us. Amen.
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